Why always I have to suffer whereas others get things very easily....?

In life when things are not working out the way we want, when series or obstacles landing on our path makes us completely drained out and finding reason behind delays become beyond our normal human capacity to comprehend...we cry out and say..."why ME God? Why always I have to suffer whereas others get things very easily....?"

Many a times we go a step further and say "no one has suffered as much as me"..."no one's destiny can be bad as me"...

Feeling depressed, frustrated and comparing our life with others is very very natural. Venting out our anger, blaming God or destiny is also very natural during testing times....

But too much of self pity can be extremely dangerous...this may result into severe depression, we may lose interest in life, self confidence may get deteriorated, we may develop extreme hatred towards others...we may lose friends...etc.

Success lies in how quickly we come out of these self destructive feelings.

Simply reminding ourselves about these facts can help us to get little peace.

1. Every person who takes birth on earth do suffer atleast one of these aspects...health, relationships(including relationship with own self), finance or career/business

2. Though nature of problems are different intensity of sufferings remain same

3. When you were enjoying your good days other people were suffering

4. Life always throws challenges that we are capable of dealing with. You are stronger than you realize

5. No matter how worst your condition or situation is there always be at least one person on earth who will be suffering more than you

6. If you hear what other people have gone through or going through you will thank God for not giving such struggle in your life

7. Whatever happens, happens for reason and for our highest long term good. There is always hidden blessings in disguised situation, identify that and learn lessons from it.

8. Sufferings are important for self growth
9. This too shall pass. The only thing which is constant is change. No situation last permanently

10. There is always dark before dawn and time is the best medicine to heal emotional wounds.

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