Mind power

In life when things are not working out the way we want, when series or obstacles landing on our path makes us completely drained out and finding reason behind delays become beyond our normal human capacity to comprehend...we cry out and say..."why ME God? Why always I have to suffer whereas others get things very easily....?" Many a times we go a step further and say "no one has suffered as much as me"..."no one's destiny can be bad as me"... Feeling depressed, frustrated and comparing our life with others is very very natural. Venting out our anger, blaming God or destiny is also very natural during testing times.... But too much of self pity can be extremely dangerous...this may result into severe depression, we may lose interest in life, self confidence may get deteriorated, we may develop extreme hatred towards others...we may lose friends...etc. Success lies in how quickly we come out of these self destructive feelings. Simply reminding ours

When unmarried women are observed having fun and achieving success, in opinion of other married women...it is because they do not have responsibilities and in laws to deal with...they are free birds ! "Had I not been married even I would have done that ! She will realize how life is tough once she gets married" When married women enjoys her freedom and achieve success in her field, then in the opinion of married women with kids its all because she still doesn't have kids...she is still a free bird...! "Had I been in this situation even I would have done that" And when women with kids achieves success and do something which no one has done earlier ... She gets to hear comments like "its all because of supportive in laws and husband and obedient kids".... Why can't most women appreciate each other with full heart ??? Why they always compare their lives with others and feel envious...??? Every woman has her own unique path...unique set of challen