In life when things are not working out the way we want, when series or obstacles landing on our path makes us completely drained out and finding reason behind delays become beyond our normal human capacity to comprehend...we cry out and say..."why ME God? Why always I have to suffer whereas others get things very easily....?" Many a times we go a step further and say "no one has suffered as much as me"..."no one's destiny can be bad as me"... Feeling depressed, frustrated and comparing our life with others is very very natural. Venting out our anger, blaming God or destiny is also very natural during testing times.... But too much of self pity can be extremely dangerous...this may result into severe depression, we may lose interest in life, self confidence may get deteriorated, we may develop extreme hatred towards others...we may lose friends...etc. Success lies in how quickly we come out of these self destructive feelings. Simply reminding ours...