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Ask right questions to get right answer !


Ask and it shall be given is the fundamental law of this Universe, but point is are we really asking ? Are we really asking in correct way ?

If you are driving to a new place for the first time. How do you ensure you reach your destination?. First of all you will ensure you have correct address with you. Then either you can put Google maps on or just follow sign boards on the road.  Inspite of following it what if you get lost ? Ofcourse then you will ask people passing by. If one person doesn't guide you properly you will ask another person and so on. You will keep asking and trying untill you reach your destination.

In this situation will you ever choose to play victim role by stopping at one place and say "Why God, why me, why this happens with me only ?". Ofcourse NO. You will keep moving ahead, you may take few wrong turns, you may reach your destination late but you will always choose to reach there no matter what.

In this situation will you ever expect people around you to come to you on their own and ask you what's the matter and guide you ? Ofcourse NO, How would they know what you are upto. You only have to ASK and ofcourse you will ASK without any hesitation because you simply want to reach to your destination. 

In this situation you will ask very crisp and clear question, "Excuse me Mr. I would like to reach xyz location can you show me direction ?". Will you ever tell that person your story - "oh you know I am so tired. I took few wrong turns, two others guided me to wrong direction, I feel sad and i am hungry, why have I landed up in this situation ...blah blah ..."

Ofcourse NO. In case you do so, that person will get frustrated and just leave. If that person is kind enough and shows patience to hear your story, eventually he will ask you to come to the point ..."thats ok but what do you want now and how can I help you". 

Imagine after sharing all your drama when you finally ask and what if you get reply  "I don't know"... Ooops...Time waste and frustration at peak !

Same approach we must implement in our lives, to fulfill our desires and to come our of our challenges. 

Asking is the first and basic step. We must ask in order to receive. If you don't ask you will never receive. Here asking could be anything...asking for money, wealth, abundance, relationship, health, it could be any desire  or wish that we put forward. For universe nothing is too big or difficult. These are simply projections of human mind. 

Asking is extremely powerful. When we ask we set the intention and set the energy flow. When we ask question, we set the intention that we are now ready to receive it. Universe then respond to that energy by creating something that matches energy vibrations. That's how we manifest our wishes and problems too.

Many people just hesitate to ask, they fear of being greedy. There is a very thin line between greediness and asking for abundance in any form. When we ask for abundance not only we benefit but we end up inspiring people, we end up contributing to the society. Take the example of Dhirubhai Ambani. No explanation needed right !. He dared to dream big, he had guts to ask for abundance and see the contribution he has made in the society. 

Some people lack faith. They believe they will not receive what they ask for and hence that becomes their reality. What you believe it comes true. 

Many people don't ask in correct way. When we are facing challenges instead of asking "why am I suffering" we can ask "how can I overcome this challenge?" Instead of asking "why am I feeling stuck?", ask "how do I move forward, what can be done to come out of it ?"

Here, Why question will make you stuck in the past. It will spoil your present and block your future. We must ask question in such way that answer is a solution, answer should push us towards future.

So, cutting long story short whenever you feel stuck. No matter how tough that situation looks like, think this is just like finding new address. Thinking this way will immediately lighten up your dense and solid energy, it will reduce intensity of drama or trauma, creating some space in your mind and heart, then ask "how can I overcome this ? What can be done to come out if it ?"

 No matter how terrible your past was, you can always choose to create better tomorrow by asking right questions.

Charuta Rajadhyaksha 
Co-founder of Unicorn Insight 
www.unicorninsight.com


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